Friday, September 23, 2016

What lies ahead

As our trip to New York seems a distant memory and we are still on decided as to where we will settle. We start to pack for our trip to India. While in America I was so aware of moments of kindness and all the free fun there was. Coming home, I have realized that there is equally as much free fun to be had. We have been home two weeks and not one day have we spent without meeting friends and family. We have numerous people to meet every day. We have gone to birthday parties, lunches, out for coffee; play dates, to the beach and the playground. I’ve had a friend come and clean my house for me. People invite me to their house for dinner and out for dinner and a wedding.
 My mum cooked, gorgeous dinners and lunches. I came home to my fridge full of food and my bedclothes cleaned. The acts of kindness have been constant. I don’t think we have had more than a couple of hours alone.  It is actually like being part of one big family. Walking down the street in the rain, just one car didn’t stop me, but three cars stopped to offer me a lift. I was in awe of how well we were treated while in new work, but I am astonished by how kind and amazing my friends and family are back home.  Alessia has fitted right back in, remembering everything and everyone. 



We have pottered over to the beach in the evening to enjoy the last of the long evenings and the summer. We have played in the playground and being able to let Alessia walk around the streets on her own. It's amazing to watch as the seasons change and with them Alessia grows a little older.  How she becomes a little more independent every day and my job changes. I am fascinated at how well she has transitioned from one place to another. With two days to go till I leave for India I am so excited as to what is ahead. To share this experience with my daughter is incredible, although she may not remember it in detail, i have no doubt it will impact on her and add to her character. I know she will love the vibrant colors and lights, the tranquil setting where we will do yoga and all the people and places we will see. I look forward to watching her immersed in the Indian culture. The trip is something I have longed for, for quite some time and I think it is happening exactly when it was meant to. I have numerous friends over there that I met in New York over the years and have been invited to stay with some of them.  I am constantly finding myself lost in the moment day dreaming about the yoga classes and what I will learn where we will travel and what I will find.  As this was the first trip I was slightly concerned about with Alessia my research was extensive and my preparation was like no other. We are prepared to make the most of every moment as like everything it comes and goes, but the memories will last forever so we plan to make loads. 
Alessia and myself are all set for all the free fun India has to offer. 


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